How did you know you were done having kids? This question is interesting, partly because for many people, it is not a conscious choice. I have a number of friends who would very much like not to be done but who have not been able to conceive another child. Some people have a number in mind, and when they reach their number, they are finished. Still more are led to the decision for financial reasons. Others, like me, have less certainty around all matters related to becoming a parent.
For one thing, I was not even sure I wanted to be a mother. These topics are almost taboo (for valid reasons). I would never, ever want for my children to read my thoughts about my perception of myself as a mother as a reflection on them. So I will tread lightly and carefully here.
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